Seasons India Love At First Sight

Love At First Sight________

Do you think love-at-first-sight happens only in movies and fairy tales? Skeptics will tell you that there is nothing called love at first sight and it doesn't exist. But the truth is love at first sight can happen to you anywhere, any place and at any time.

At first, you get attracted to the person and basically its physical attraction since this is what we first see of the person: it's his or her body that attracts or repulses us, whether we want it or not. However, this attraction can only move beyond sexual desire if admiration develops as we get to know the other. Finally, love survives the ravages of time and routine only if we maintain a degree of shared interests and activities. So after all even if you think that you have fallen in love with the person, your love will have to survive the test of time.

You know you've fallen for him when...

Your mind starts spinning out of control and you can't stop thinking about him. All that you do is want to be with him every moment of the day.
You tend to overlook your loved one's faults and weakness, secretly hoping that your love will be enough to fix them all.
You're happy when he's there; you're terribly depressed when he's gone.
Though you are not a very compromising person but being with him has changed you and you have become a more compromising and understanding person.

When you start dating the man of your dreams, it is quite natural that you will want to touch him, kiss him and be in his arms. Psychologists have noted the first instance of physical contact is initiated by the woman three times out of four, usually in the most subtle possible manner. A slight brush of the arm or the shoulder, for example, is usually enough to tell her man that it's his turn to take some physical initiative-and that his advances won't be turned down! His body movements will play a major part in expressing his pleasure at being in your company. You must have the ability to understand whether he likes your company or not and whether he is just as much interested in you as you are.

Following are a few experiences of our readers about Love-at-first-sight

I met Prashant when i was in college. When i saw him the first time i liked him very much and wanted to know him but he was a very shy guy and always used to be silent and pre-occupied. His seriousness used to keep me away but one day i just dared to talk to him. And then knowing him and loving him was a blessing. Well for him it was not a love at first sight and he took one year to open up but from day one i knew that i loved him. Yes Love at first sight does exist.
Radhika

`Love at first sight` used to be a fairy tale story to me untill now when i met her and i am so head over heels in love with her. She is the most beautiful woman on earth. I love her so much that i cant imagine a life without her. I am waiting for the day when she will be mine forever but i guess that has to wit for some time now. But i know one thing and that is she is made for me and i will never stop loving her.
Suresh

I never used to believe in it but one day I was standing in a queue in the post office and that is when I saw him. He was filling in some form. At first I couldn't see his face but then he turned around and that was when our eyes met. I felt like my heart had stopped thumping and I kept on staring at him shamelessly. He looked away but I stood there like a statue. He turned again and smiled at me. That's when I came back to my senses and smiled back. I was absolutely shocked when I saw him coming towards me. He came up to me and asked me if I had a pen. He tells me now that he had to start a conversation so he asked for a pen. But the fact is love at first sight does exist and Ashish and I have experienced it.
Neha

My love story really sounds like a fairy tale story. I fell in love with Sonia in the air when I was traveling to Madras. She was sitting alone looking absolutely stunning in a pink outfit in the first row. The moment I saw her I knew that I had to be with her. Luckily the seat next to her was not occupied so I asked the air hostess to shift me there and I am thankful that she did. When I went to sit next to her she smiled at me. I introduced myself and then we talked through the entire journey. She gave me her number and that's when I knew that I had her love. We are engaged now and will soon get married.
Anand

great. very few people get to experience it. it is a feeling of having world into ur pockets. It makes u do everything good which u never think of
darshan

yeah,i bilieve....it exist.i can never forget that moment.i was in a queue for getting the cat form in a bank.she was behind me....i turned towards her but unfortunately....she turned down...i said finally "thank you" and went off.she was so beautiful but this was god`s wish.
Alok Anand

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