In a dating game what is most important is being noticed.
The first step to getting a date is actually getting noticed
Following are a
few tips that will be useful to you in a dating scene.
They say "smile and
it increases your face value". Basically everyone is typically
attracted to someone who makes them feel good about themselves,
or who helps them forget the tensions of life, even if it
is for a small time. A smile is an excellent icebreaker,
and when given to people you'd like to talk to, it makes
an excellent approach and your work is half done.
Believe it or not but looks do matter a
lot in dating game. Thus if you wanna get noticed and be
the centre of attraction you must spend some time on yourself
to look your best. . Use this to your advantage and wear
flattering clothes, colours and hairstyles.
Eye contact can be
a very powerful unspoken communication. It can give lots
of unspoken signals that will make your goal easier. Thus
if you use this tool properly, you can create a sense of
appeal, mystery and allure.
Sense of humour is
something that will make you stand out and be noticed everywhere.
Laughter makes people forget about their tensions and problems.
If you can do that, you'll not only stand out, but you'll
leave a lasting impression.
What is the most
important thing that is required is self-confidence and
appearance. People very often jump to conclusions as to
whether you are, or aren't their type by how you are dressed
and on your overall appearance. Thus to succeed in your
conquest you should definitely be dressed neatly and appropriately
and also walk with an air of confidence in you. Without
confidence, you are more likely to make a fool out of yourself
than start a relationship.
Once you mark your
target the next step is to talk to him. One approach in
selecting a conversation starter is to look at the person
minutely and find something interesting about him, and then
comment or ask him about it. When doing this, try to find
out the type of person he is. Is he an extrovert or introvert,
what does he do mostly; if alone in the room what catches
his interest, etc. When you do go and talk to him, try to
be as original as possible and choose a topic that you have
some knowledge and/or interest in. If you are asked something
about which you have no knowledge at all be frank enough
to tell him that and don't make a fool of yourself by bluffing
your way through. This is where confidence also plays a
This is most important.
Try to be yourself and don't ape anyone or be someone who
you really are not. Don't try to impress him by being something
you are not, or by showing him something you think he wants
to see. Show him your true self. The strongest and deepest
bonds are built upon honesty and truth. Don't try to fool
anyone 'coz sooner or later he will find out and that will
not be a good thing.