A perfect Friday night – you ought to be out with the special someone having a quite romantic dinner followed by a late night movie – sounds so romantic. Fact: You are all alone having dinner in your boring apartment. Have you wondered why? Have you wondered why you are single? If you dig a little deeper you might just find the cause and also find out a way to get rid of your loneliness and find love.
1. You give your career first priority.
If work is the only thing on your mind then it is quite obvious that you are single. Its one thing to be successful but not at the cost of leading a lonely life. Therefore learn to play smart. Make a list of traits you'd like a potential partner to have. Create a list of things you offer and can bring to a relationship. Then, figure out a few places where you'd find the man of your dreams who will fit the list.
2. Too scared of heartbreak.
If you are one of those who always try to figure out the consequences of your actions and believe in taking calculated risks only then let me remind you that love doesn't work that way. You have to let things happen naturally without thinking about the negative. Relax, trust yourself and know that no matter what you go through it will always be something you can handle.
3. Haven't met Mr Right yet.
Making a list of traits you wish your potential partner to have is a good thing. We all want the man of our dreams. But if your list is filled with too many specific traits that are nearly impossible to get then you are going to find it difficult to meet anyone. Don't get too carried away, and allow yourself to be open to new experiences. Be flexible and meet more people. Who knows you might get attracted to someone who does not fit your list of traits at all.
4. I like my own space.
How often do you actually go out to try and meet new people? You're not going to get anywhere if you're sitting at home loving your own world too much to allow anyone to enter it. Get out there and you will surely find someone attractive. If confidence is a factor, do something for yourself. Start a new workout program, get a new hairstyle, or buy a few new clothes. Take some time out to improve yourself. Not only will it make you feel better about yourself, but you'll find yourself more attractive to other people just because of your attitude shift.
5. I'm still in love with my ex.
This is the most pathetic reason and I strongly suggest that you get out of this phase as soon as you can? Do whatever it is you need to do to get over it, and move on. Life is full of surprises, twists and turns. It is not an easy, straight path. Let go of your past so you can see what is in store for you just around the corner. You deserve love and for that learn to love and respect yourself.