You have broken up with your ex but somewhere in your heart
you still have a soft corner for him. The mention of his
name still makes your heart beat faster. You still long
for one glimpse of him. You are still seeing him and you
want to be friends just not ready to let go. If all this
is happening with you then you are heading for a disaster.
Well its ok if you are single but if you are married or
in a new relationship then this is TROUBLE. You have to
get over him and move on.
Let bygone be bygone
It is best for you to forget the past and be happy with
your present relationship. Just remember you broke up with
your ex or he broke up with you for a reason and getting
back with him or trying not to forget him will not only
harm you but also harm the present relationship. It was
your deci8sion to move on therefore don't look back and
spoil what you have.
You can never be
friends with your Ex
They say that you can be friends with your ex but that never
really works, so don't attempt it. It is always advisable
to keep no contact at all with your ex coz it will always
bring back bitter memories and also harm your present relationship.
If you are still seeing your ex, meeting up with him, discussing
your life, boyfriend etc with him then invariably you tend
to compare your present boyfriend with your ex and if you
still have feelings for your ex, then it can be very dangerous
for your present relationship.
Never sleep with
Ok, it was just by chance that he bumped into you and you
went out with him for dinner or coffee for old time sakes.
Well keep it to that. Even if you have not forgotten him and
got over him, don't do the mistake of sleeping with him. This
will make you go over all the hurt and pain that you went
through during break up. Never never get physical with your
Don't discuss your
present relationship with your Ex
Even if you are still on speaking terms with your ex, don't
discuss your romance life with your ex. Sub-consciously you
will be trying to make him jealous but at the same time you
have to realize that this is a guy you dated and loved once.
And by discussing your present relationship with him you are
in a way not trying to forget your past but you are just not
ready to forget anything at all. You will end up comparing
your present boyfriend with your ex which is totally devastating
on your present relationship.