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Ending a bad date is probably the most difficult thing for
all. When you are asked out for a date you prepare for those
special moments the whole day. You expect a lot from that
person. You try to see your dream man in him and you visualize
him as Mr. Right but what if all this ends up into just
a mis-fortune. What if Mr. Right is not exactly what you
had in mind? What if he so boring that you felt like you
never went out on a date with him. What if you are irritated
with the way he drinks his coffee or eats or talks. What
if your date was an absolute disaster and you want the date
to end. So... what do you do. How do you let him down easy?
How do you tell him that you do not want to see him anymore?
Well,
this part is no doubt difficult but remember one thing and
that is you have to be truthful and frank to avoid all future
problems. You don't need to go out of your way to hurt your
date's feelings, but don't hide the truth trying to spare
his feelings either. Be honest and let him know how you feel.
Sometimes being nice is just not the solution to the problem
'coz doing so could lead to mixed feelings and/or unwanted
advances. In this situation, just thank him for the date and
explain to him that he is not the type of person you are looking
for. You can tell him that maybe we will not make a perfect
couple. Don't tell him that you want to be friends, unless
you are really serious about that role. And, most importantly,
if you don't want to see the person again then make it very
clear to him how you feel. You can very sweetly tell him that
you don't think this relationship will work and its best if
we don't see one another. Thus the important thing is be honest
and candid.
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