So finally your dream man has asked you out
on a date. Well there are a few tips that will be handy in
order for you to continue the relationship and go out for
the second date.
Follow the following suggestions if you want a second date.
First and foremost DON'T ask
him if you look fat. This is not the time to ask for such
questions. Now is the time when you should get to know
each other and understand one another. So don't embarrass
yourself and well as your date by asking such questions.
And lets face it he will never tell the truth anyways.
DONT be nervous and hesitant.
Men like a woman who is comfortable with herself and if
you sit in front of him chewing your kerchief or pushing
a piece of iceberg lettuce around your plate he will just
think that you are self-obsessed and dull. Start a conversation
and ask him about his work, hobbies etc.
DON'T rabble on all night about
your ex-boyfriend. He wanted to know about your past affair
just tell him that its over and it did not work out. Don't
keep on telling him what went wrong and things or else
he will think that you still want to continue with your
ex-boyfriend or think that you are entering into a relationship
with him to get over your past experience. So avoid doing
that and pay attention to the man in front of you.
DON'T ask him about marriage
and children on the first date itself. Lets face it men
are a bit nervous of the M-word. Most men feel like they
have made a commitment when they ask you out for a whole
dinner instead of just a quick drink. Talking marriage,
babies and responsibilities will make him nervous and
that will spoil your date.
Last but not the least DONT
have sex with him on the first date. Even if he is drop
dead gorgeous (and of course he probably is otherwise
why would you have gone out with him in the first place)
resist, resist, resist! The old saying is 'will he still
respect you in the morning?' Probably not! Besides, much
like an ice-cream binge… it will probably leave you feeling
somewhat ashamed and quite a lot guilty!