is a boon for those who are too shy to strike up a conversation
face-to-face with a stranger or for those who can't easily
get out due to physical limitations, illnesses, or other
conditions. It is definitely a cheaper and more convenient
alternative to meeting people. It does not look at caste,
creed, colour of the skin, beauty or appearance. Cyberdating
is fun, exciting, adventurous and it takes less time to
find people to "chat" with, and it provides instant gratification.
Cyberdating is a wonderful arena for building your confidence
to date in person. By hiding behind the anonymity of words,
you can be freer to express who you really are as a person.
Without the burden of having to physically interact, you
can gain skills that help you over the next hurdle: the
actual face-to-face meeting. The thousands of people chatting
online give you a wide selection with whom to test your
moves. And if you are unhappy with one interaction, there
are thousands more to peruse.
You find Love on the Web?
you find Love on the Web?
This is the most important question
asked as to whether real love exists on the web. Of course,
the whole point of flirting online is to eventually find
a match, meet him/her, and hopefully begin what could be
a very promising relationship. However, what if you finally
meet your love interest and that person doesn't live up
to your expectations? Questions such as these do crop up
but you have to take this risk. Obviously, you have to face
the dears about doing this. The possibility of finding true
love on the Internet is certainly there but it all depends
on your luck. And don't you think true love is really a
matter of luck. But on the net you don't really have to
lose anything. There are no promises, no guarantee, of course.
But, the more exposure you get to different people, the
more circles you form and the greater your likelihood of
meeting someone that interests you.
There have been many successful web matches. Arvind met
Beena on the net. At first they started with just flirting
with one another. Arvind was working at London when he started
chating with Beena at Bombay. They started to know about
one another, for 6 months they chatted and slowing both
of them fell in love. Arvind proposed to Beena before coming
to India without even seeing her and Beena accepted. Very
soon he came to India and married her. Things like this
do happen while sometimes it doesn't work. But you never
know you might find the love you were looking for and there
will definitely be a happy ending. It is always possible
that the person you go to meet with whom you have been chatting
for months might not be like you expected physically…he/she
might be fat, short, have less hair, but the question is
whether physical appearance is most important to you or
the fact that he/she understands you better, knows you,
you like spending time with him/her. And even if you think
that it won't work you can always be good chat friends.
A unique feature of cyberdating is that you have total control.
After all, you do not have to respond to anyone. You are
the ultimate judge of what, where, and with whom you connect.
Following are a few disadvantages of cyberdating:
1. Do not believe in everything you read. While chatting online
people normally tell lies because here you can be anyone you
want to. Therefore you must be extremely wary of liars and
con artists. If you're really interested in someone you meet
on the Web, take the next step and meet over the phone, see
a photo, and so forth.
2. You will also have to face some sex crazy, nasty people
who are interested in only dirty talk. Learn to tackle them.
3. Before taking the plunge into any kind of relationship
think twice. Do not jump into it. Remember you really don't
have to lose anything online so take decisions properly and
be frank as to your interests and expectations.
Cyberdating is fun; it is a wonderful arena for building your
confidence to date in person. It helps you to understand a
person better and also makes you realize as to what you need
and expect in a relationship. Following are the advantages
1. You can start your chat sessions at any time. You can be
in the middle of working on your computer and easily switch
over to send a massage to someone. Others can also instantly
contact you, so you don't have to wait for a phone call back.
2. It is cheaper than making phone calls, as your computer
can connect you to people around the world for no more money
than your internet charges and local phone call rate.
3. It is very easily accessible. Wherever there is a telephone
line, you can be hooked up on your computer.
4. You can choose the time convenient to you.