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 You
are in love but you do not know whether she/he also loves
you. Well one way is to ask him/her but if you are the shy
kind then here is a way by which you can come to a positive
or negative conclusion.
Try On Body Language
Focus
If you're interested in someone, you focus and pay attention.
If you're not interested in someone, your attention wanders.
So if you're sitting with the person you like, and he/she
is looking at you when you're talking, that's a great sign.
The eyes have it all and thus if the person is not interested
he/she will keep looking out the window, or watching other
girls/men.
Dilated eyes
As they say "The eyes are the window to the soul."
Thus while you are talking to the person you like, your eye
pupils dialate (get bigger) when you're excited. So if someone's
eyes look really big, it shows they're interested. Thus keep
your eyes on him/her and observe the eyes.
Lip and Mouth Activities
A girl might bite her lip gently, or run her tongue along
her lip to show that she is interested. Some girls even do
this deliberately to flirt, although it rarely looks natural.
If you're a girl, don't try it, unless you're really sure
it looks natural.
Hair
Fiddling and playing with hair is one way to show that you
are interested. Girls wrap their fingers in their hair. Guys
run their hands through their hair. Note that twirling your
hair is more a sign of boredom and distraction.
Arms and Hands
If the girl keeps her arms or hands closed or crossed (which
is normal if its cold) then that is a clear indication that
she's not feeling comfortable. Arms that are out and away
from her are less 'defensive'. Also, if the woman leaves her
wrist-up, it's sort of an "I trust you" motion.
Legs
Women normally like to sit cross-legged and note that it doesn't
mean that she isn't interested. So forget about that and concentrate
on the toes because, toes tend to react to general body energy.
So if someone's feeling bored and listless, they might just
lay there. But if someone is feeling excited and energetic,
the toe might make little circles or bounce. Women when are
interested point their toes towards the man.
The Voice
The way someone talks and especially the tone of the voice
is hugely important. It will instantly tell you whether:
Are they bored and weary? Are they thoughtful and quiet?
Are they enthused and interested? To find out whether the
person is interested in you first watch your own speech
and then watch how their speech changes. If someone wants
to 'get along' with someone else, they naturally match their
speech patterns together. If you're interested in someone,
you start to naturally speak like them, using the same tone
of voice, the same loudness/softness and speed, the same
phrases even.
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