Kissed the Way You Want to be Kissed
is one of the most crucial part of love making. But what if
your partner sucks at it? Well it’s essential to get
him to do what you like and to show him how to do it. But
what is important is how you handle the situation. Always
make a point of saying what works, not what doesn't. Do not
tell him he doesn't kiss well or doesn't 'do it' for you unless,
of course, you don't want to see him again. Follow the steps
for being kissed the way you want to be kissed.
If you want to be kissed the way you like it you will have
to take control of the situation and bend your man to deliver.
For example: You and your partner are kissing. You gently
start to take control by placing your hands on either side
of his face, holding his cheeks and guiding his lips. In doing
so, you are in control of the amount of pressure and motion
of his mouth and, in turn, he feels the warmth of your hands.
This can be especially good if your partner's mouth is too
loose or open for you. Then it is your responsibility to kiss
him as you love to be kissed.
Get him to follow your lead:
When you are in control of the situation show him how to kiss
you the way you want. Unless you guide him it will not be
possible for him to understand what you want. Thus show him
exactly what you enjoy and how to do it.
3. Introduce a fantasy:
Tell him that you had a dream the other night about how he
was kissing you -- and it was fabulous. Whether or not you
actually had this dream, what you need to do is have an idea
about what you want to ask for. So think ahead how you want
to blend the new kissing style or technique you want with
what he already does. That way, you're not asking for a completely
different thing and won't risk offending his ego. If you can't
manage to explain what you want fully using your dream, tell
him, 'You did something like this' and then show him what
Praise your partner:
Let your partner know when he has kissed you right. If he
does something you really like, repeat it on him and ask if
it feels as good to him as it did to you. Don’t criticize
and use too many words to describe that you did not enjoy
the kiss. Remember that while you may feel that the more you
tell, the better, he might not like it and feel hurt.
Don't assume that one time through will work. Repeat exercises
1-4 as often as necessary. And enjoy!