CONCEIVING: SEX SHOULD BE FUN
you are trying to conceive for a while without any success
then keeping sex fun is a very difficult proposition. Unless
you enjoy love-making and do it in a more relaxed and fun
way conceiving will also be difficult. Hence you have to balance
both these things. We have thus brought for you ways in which
you can make babies in a fun way enjoying each step.
This is the
most important aspect. Relax and be at ease. Conceiving is
very difficult if you think about it all the time and be tensed.
Remember that love-making should be fun and you should enjoy
it no matter this time you are having sex with a purpose.
So the aim is to recapture the fun of making love, because
the more relaxed you are, the more chance of making babies.
Try and stay positive. You aim is to conceive and so work
towards it and think positive. The chances of getting pregnant
in each cycle varies according to a wide range of factors,
but perhaps the most important one is the woman's age. It
will take a couple in their early twenties an average of five
cycles to conceive. Women in their early thirties will get
pregnant, on average, after nine cycles. One in ten couples
will take more than a year to succeed in conceiving. So if
you're 32 and you've been trying for six months without success
then take comfort in the fact that the average woman your
age takes nine cycles to conceive. So that gives you three
months before you even reach average. So try to relax and
Have Sex More Often
When your aim is to conceive it is important that you have
to have sex regularly and you have to be spontaneous. Don't
be under any kind of pressure and have sex when you want to
not when you think you should if you are following any chart
or advice of your Doctor. Be adventurous and think about different
positions. Creativity can bring about excitement and passion
into love-making and that is a good sign.
Take romantic breaks
Take a break from work and go out on weekends to some romantic
place. Being together in a romantic place will ignite the
passion and you might end up being pregnant. If you already
have child drop the child at your mother's place and go on
a second honeymoon. If you don't have children yet then romantic
weekends are the best bet. You can have some morning sex which
is the best time to conceive.