thing you will all agree with me and that is sex is a great
thing and it is more enjoyable if it culminates with orgasm.
Now for men that's no problem really but for women it is.
Many women - about one out of three - have trouble reaching
orgasm when having sex with their partner. Most women experience
orgasm through clitoral stimulation rather than through vaginal
penetration. So what is crucial is to find out which position
helps best to reach orgasm and how. You and your partner probably
already know a lot about pushing each other's buttons. But
by pushing them slightly differently -- and maybe finding
some buttons you didn't know you had -- you can enter a whole
new realm of mutual satisfaction. I am not saying that you
have to try out totally different and new positions in your
quest to ultimate satisfaction. All that you have to do is
try out the same positions in a slightly different manner;
you can both achieve sexual satisfaction to the fullest. These
revised positions work because they stimulate all your hot
spots -- and his, too. So not only will you be likelier to
achieve orgasm, but his climaxes will be more intense.
The revised classic missionary position
This is the position where the man is on top of the woman
while the woman lies on her back with her knees raised or
not. This is the position which is the least likely to hit
your g-spot without some minor changes. Now in order to reach
climax you have to put a plump pillow or two under your lower
back to tilt the pelvis so your clitoris rubs against his
body during penetration. If you're flexible, forget the pillow
and wrap your legs around his waist or neck. Or put your feet
on his shoulders. Or pull up your knees and place your feet
flat against his chest. This position hits the g-spot accurately
helping you to reach orgasm while it also simulates your partner
and he can have an intense climax.
The revised woman-on-top position
This is typically the best position for a woman to reach orgasm
because while on top women can control the angle and speed
of penetration. But with this revised position you can increase
your chances of orgasm. For a complete sexual satisfaction
you must lean back, resting your hands on the bed behind you,
or lean forward with your hands above his head. These more
extreme angles heighten clitoral stimulation and also help
deep penetration thereby hitting your g-spot.
The revised spoon (side-by-side) position
This position is mostly favoured by pregnant women or if you
are tired or injured. But this position can also give you
extreme satisfaction if done in a slightly different manner.
For greater enjoyment and satisfaction your partner should
lie on his side facing you, propped up on one elbow. You start
out on your back. Place your inner leg (the one closer to
him) on top of his legs, and turn so your outer leg fits between
his legs (so your butt faces him). Penetration in this case
will be deep and it will stimulate your g-spot well to give
you an orgasm.
The revised sitting position
Many couple find this a very uncomfortable position but with
little bit of practice you will start to love this position.
Sit in the center of the bed facing each other. Wrap your
legs around him and try to sit on his legs. Then place your
right hands at the back of each other's neck, your left hands
on each other's tailbone. Place his penis inside you so it
exerts as much indirect pressure as possible on your clitoris
(in this position the main concentration will be stimulating
the clitoris in order to reach orgasm). Stimulate each other's
hot spots by rocking gently in rhythm so that penetration
is deep and the g-spot and clitoris is properly stimulated.
You can enhance the sexual intimacy and satisfaction of this
position by sitting on one or more pillows so your G-spot
and clitoris can receive more stimulation.