While many men seek to rid themselves of premature ejaculation, there are others who have a very different problem; the inability to ejaculate soon enough (Delayed Ejaculation). This problem does not carry the same social stigma as that of premature ejaculation, however delayed ejaculation can be as frustrating. It can take the pleasure out of sex and may turn some men off sex altogether. If you suffer from delayed ejaculation, then it would be helpful to take a trip to see your physician because it could be a physical problem. If your physician can not solve this problem then a sex therapist may be helpful.