is a G-Spot?
The "G" spot, so named after Dr. Ernest Grafenberg who wrote
in 1950 an article about his discovery of this area of the
female body, is a bean shaped mass of nerve tissue behind
the clitoris located just the other side of the pubic bone
on the upper wall of the vagina. The size and development
of the urethral sponge can vary from woman to woman and can
be anywhere from the size of a dime to a silver dollar, hence
no two women will respond to G-spot stimulation in exactly
the same way. G-spot once stimulated gives a woman immense
pleasure and is a focal point of sexual arousal.
How to locate G-spot?
To locate G-spot either you can do it yourself or take the
help of your partner. Locating G-spot together is not only
fun by it will help you reach the peak of sexual satisfaction.
You must be able to guide your partner and should be open
as to what feels good and how your partner should stimulate
So, start out by kissing and stroking, caressing and teasing
each other until you two can't stand it any more and penetration
is necessary. Vaginal stimulation may be unpleasant if the
vagina is not well lubricated. Production of vaginal lubrication
varies dramatically from female to female. Hence if vaginal
dryness is a concern, make sure to use a water-based lubricant
during your exploration.
The exact location of the G-Spot varies slightly from woman
to woman. It is normally found about two inches in from the
opening of the vagina, on the anterior wall (toward the stomach).
Place two fingers into her vagina. Using your index finger,
touch the anterior wall. It generally feels best if you keep
consistent, firm pressure along the entire length of the fingers
against the vaginal walls. Stop rotating and rest your fingertips
on the (often slightly ridged) area of the vagina just behind
the pubic bone and exert pressure upwards, towards her belly.
This is direct G-spot stimulation, and it usually feels best
if you move the fingers in small, slow circles, or point the
fingers more sharply upwards and rock them forwards and back.
Positions that help locate and stimulate G-spot?
The G-Spot is easily located with the help of a partner while
the women is lying on her belly with her hips slightly elevated.
When in this position, one's partner should apply light pressure
to the vaginal wall with two or three fingertips while pressing
down (towards the bed).
If a woman chooses to lie on her back, she or her partner
can insert a couple of fingers curved upwards and then press
upward with the tip of the fingers until you are pressing
If engaging in intercourse, many women find the woman-on-top
or the sitting position the best arrangement for providing
stimulation to the G-Spot.