There are times when you marriage turns sour and no
matter how hard you seem to be trying to smoothen things
out but everything seems to be going out of hand. The
relationship falls apart and you are hurt so bad that
there is no chance for reconciliation. This is the stage
when you will never admit your mistakes and take responsibility
of your actions and inactions. Don’t let your
relationship reach such a stage that it becomes impossible
to get back love in your life. Keep your eyes open and
look out for the following relationship hazard zones.
Are you taking your partner
This is the first stage of a relationship breakdown.
Never take your partner for granted. If you have reached
this stage when you think that you don’t really
have to take the help and advice of your partner and
you start assuming things then you better look out,
for you are heading towards disaster. For any relationship
to last for a lifetime mutual trust, understanding and
respect is a must.
you listen to your partner
For relationships to function well, an ability to listen
is needed. Spouses want to be heard respectfully and
understood when they communicate their real needs. Does
your husband know how you feel? Does he know that this
is a problem for you? Talk to your partner, be heard
and listen to what he has to say.
you spend ample time together
By this I don’t mean you have to be together physically
every minute of the day. In order to keep the romance
and passion alive in your relationship you should do
everything that you used to do during your dating days.
Take your partner out for a movie followed with dinner.
Whenever you get the opportunity go out for long drives
or spend the weekend at some romantic place away from
the hustle bustle of the city. Be creative and see how
wonderful your relationship really is.
are some suggestions to revive the romance in your relationship:
Consider scheduling time for date nights when
you and your husband can go out for a date.
List down 10 things/ways in which you can show
love to him/her, then exchange lists. Try to do one
thing in the list for the other each day. Repeat or
improvise as required!