| Jewish Wedding
In
Jewish tradition, marriage is considered sanctification.
The word for marriage, "kiddushin", is derived from
the root word, "kadosh", which means holiness. The favourite
day for Jewish marriage is a Tuesday.
Pre Wedding
Ceremony
On the wedding day, the bride
and groom observe fast. If the wedding is in the afternoon,
the bride and the groom recite "Yom Kippur Viddui "(confessional)
prayers privately before the wedding ceremony in order to forget
their past and live a married life with purity and forgiveness.
Before the wedding ceremony a ritual called "Badeken"
is performed which gives an opportunity to the bride
as well as the groom to see one another accompanied
by the relatives of either party.
Wedding
Ceremony
The Rabbi first checks under
the "huppah" (canopy under which the religious ceremony
is performed) to make sure there are two "Kiddush" cups
and wine that will be used during the ceremony. The
bridesmaids, usherers, maid and matron of honour, best
man and other relatives surround the "huppah". The bride
and groom walk down the aisle separately, each accompanied
to the "huppah" by his/her parents. The groom's party
enters first, and the last to enter are the bride and
her parents. Then the couple stands side by side, under
the "huppah". The "huppah" symbolizes the new home of
the bride and groom. The rabbi recites the blessings
over a cup of wine, from which the bride and groom take
a sip each. The wedding begins by exchange of rings
and recitation of the marriage formula. The
Rabbi then reads the "Ketubah" (This is the marriage
contract, which is written beforehand, signed by two
witnesses and which stipulates the dowry as well as
the amount the wife will receive should her husband
divorce her). Then he hands over the "ketubah" to the
groom, who in turn gives it to the bride to keep. This
completes the legal part of the ceremony. To close the
ceremony seven additional blessings of marriage, known
as "Sheva (seven) B' Rachot", are recited over cup of
wine. Thus the wedding ceremony is over after all the
relatives bless the couple over a cup of wine and then
an empty glass wrapped in cloth is placed under the
groom's foot. He stomps on it vigorously, shattering
it. It is a symbolic act designed to recall the destruction
of the Temple in Jerusalem. The bridegroom then kisses
the bride.
Post Wedding Ceremony
The couple along with the
relatives and friends head for reception. The wedding
feast is known as "seudat mitzwah". During the reception,
the bride and the groom are seated in the center of
the dancing circle, or carried aloft in chairs, while
their friends clap and sing around them.
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