are times when women feel frustrated with marriage, kids,
commitments and responsibilities and feel that they lack independence
and individuality. Marriage usually turns sour when both partners
stop taking active responsibilities and interest and start
taking one another for granted. This is the stage when there
comes in frustration, anger and insecurity.
You have to understand that relationships are based on commitments
and sacrifice. Now it is up to you to maintain it. In every
relationship there comes a stage when you will face little
bit of problems and complications. During such times you have
to be calm and try to find solutions to ease the tension and
bring back things under control.
are a few tips that will help you ease tension and bring back
love into your life.
GO TO BED ANGRY
This is the most important thing if you want to make things
rights. You are angry with your partner, then go ahead and
talk it out without keeping it to yourself. Unless you tell
him what has piqued you or hurt you how will he come to know.
Discuss it, tell him that he was wrong and what he did has
hurt you immensely and that's it. So easy!! Please don't go
to bed hurt and angry because all that it will do is cause
more pain and confusion.
TRY TO FIND THE PROBLEM
The problem troubling you might be very small and if talked
you will definitely be able to resolve it. So first try to
find out what caused the problem. This is essential because
if you can identify the problem then it will be easier for
you to solve it. If it's your mistake accept it and forget
about it. If it is his mistake then again don't go to bed
angry and talk with him. Remember you have to make a genuine
effort to make things work.
BE CALM AND PATIENT
By saying this I don't mean that you have to take all the
pain and humiliation and bear the brunt of your partner. What
I mean to say is that don't start blaming your partner for
all the tensions and problems and create a commotion but try
to talk it out with him calmly. Shouting and quarrelling will
not lead you anywhere. Be calm, composed and patient and everything
will be just fine.