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HOW
TO MAKE FRIENDS AT COLLEGE
Does
that sound so difficult? It isn't, believe me. When
you enter college you find friends of the same age group.
Everyone out there must be looking out for friends.
Unless you are a very reserved and shy kind of person
it is very easy to be friends with people of your class
and college. Making friends should not be a problem
at all. Still, it requires effort and a willingness
to extend yourself at times. You need to open up and
be welcoming.
First and foremost don't wait for people to come and
introduce themselves to you. Start with introducing
yourself. Take the initiative and cut the ice. Once
you have introduced yourself it will be easy to do the
rest. Don't be snobbish and arrogant.
Attend parties, sports events and special gatherings
where people socialize. Remain open to new cultures,
ideas and values. Invite people to join you for a bite
to eat and a drink. This way you can make friends fast.
Help out your classmates or people who are in trouble.
Be co-operative and bubbly. Don't be tense or irritated
and even if you are don't show that on your face otherwise
no one will like to be with you. Throw a party occasionally
and attend all parties if possible.
Be loquacious but don't talk nonsense, sociable, chatty,
talkative, friendly, outgoing, helpful, amiable, congenial,
neighbourly, approachable, easygoing and smart. All
this will help you get the best friends you want at
college.
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